I think I have some pretty HUGE stuff happening next week.  Since, I am not blogging tomorrow, I thought I’d throw one up on Sunday night.  So let’s get started.  For one, I will be video-blogging my testimony over at Toby’s Blog, for his first installment of what he is calling “Testimony Tuesdays”  I look forward to see how God moves that Blog.  So go support him, check out my Testimony on Tuesday, and let us both know what you think.

I also really hope to delve deeper into my racism blog, and hopefully give more insight on that topic.  There are 100′s of things I want to write about, have discussions with you about, and even talk about.  I see HUGE things for me and this blog!  I hope you keep coming back, and leave me some comments, opinions and thoughts.

Talk to y’all soon!

It has been a crazy week.  A really crazy week.  But now that it is almost said and done, I can honestly say, God is amazing!  I don’t know what is going on in my heart exactly but I do know that God is moving me.  I feel so alive lately!  The works in my life are great.  I can see myself growing, and I can tell I am being equipped for something huge.  Something Earth changing.  I feel it.

The hurt we have all gone through this week is real, but through it all, God shined in and said, “Here I am.  Believe in me.  Here’s that sign you’ve been looking for!”  Amazing. 

Nothing deep today.  I don’t need to think or question anything.  It’s clear as day.  God is rockin’ and rollin’ my life.  Whew.  The feeling is great. 

To top it off, I believe that all of the compassion children that we have posted have been sponsored.  Thank you all!  That’s just great.  I will post something more in depth Monday.  (I try to take Sunday’s off.  You know…) So, check back Monday to see what is going on in my life.

God I love you, I beg you to keep pouring down your blessings on me and my family.  God, touch anyone reading this who needs you, whether they know it or not.  God, You are The Almighty, and I praise You!  I want to work for You, I want my life to be Christ-Centric.  Help me with my struggles, help me with my future, help me with my reactions.  God, help us all!  Jesus, we love You. 

Amen!

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The past few days have been very difficult.  To see my fiance hurt like she is hurting, kills me.  I don’t like it.  But, the last few days have been eye opening for me.  For the first time in my life, I have faith in my ability to be strong.  I have been able to stand by her side, and tell her honestly, everything will be ok.  I have been able to make her smile when she needed to smile, and through even my hurt, I have been able to protect her,  and see her through this.

I’m not bragging on myself. What I am saying is, I have NEVER felt God was moving in me so much.  See, I laid a prayer down for God before I proposed.  I asked him to carry me.  I told him I was letting my guard down.  It’s not that I didn’t trust him before, but there were spaces that were mine.  I didn’t want him involved.  I liked that when I was sad, I could pray, and when I was about to eat he’d bless my food.  I didn’t want him fiddling in my business though.  I didn’t want him hearing my deepest fears, or “not-so-holy thoughts”.

I didn’t feel complete.

Before I got engaged, I said, “God, I have never been a stellar family guy, probably because I have never been in a stellar family, or home situation.  I don’t know how to stand by someone. (I’ve never had to.) The only thing I know how to do is run.  Lord.  Teach me how to not run.  Teach me how to be supportive, teach me how to be a Man.”

It was one of the first times I remember not even thinking something like, “God, I did this, so you really need to do this” or, “If I do this, will you do this?”.  And he delivered!  He made me a man.  He made me someone who can be supportive, and understanding.  He made me everything I was missing in my house growing up.  He made me Love.

It’s crazy.  Over the last few months I have formed healthy, male relationships. (some online, and some off) and I feel like I have a support system, people I can talk to, People to hold me accountable.  Most importantly, people who will tell me the truth. (whether I like it or not.)

I love to say that all of this change is because of my deep love for Andrea.  Which is true.  It sparked the fear that sparked the prayer that asked for the change, but the reality of it is, God made the change, I just had to be willing.  I just had to reach up, and ask.  He loves us so much.  Do you grasp that?  I know I don’t.

What have you been unwilling to pray for, but when you did it was the best thing that has ever happened to you?

The last three days have been mentally and physically exhausting.  Sunday night, Andrea’s grandfather went into cardiac arrest, by the time the paramedics arrived, and were able to revive him, he had been without oxygen to his brain for 10-12 minutes.

Monday, and Most of Tuesday were exhausting filled with friends, family, prayer and tears.  Around 5:20 we were all told that there was no brain activity, and there was nothing else they could do.  So again, friends and family gathered for one last goodbye.  As they pulled out the respirator, we all gathered in the room to sing Amazing Grace with Roland.  I can’t even try to type this, and my roommate, one of my mentors, and a close friend, George Lockhart has already written it so boldly.  I will just paste his encounter below.

What happened is that the last song the group was singing was Amazing Grace and during the song, they pulled the respirator and administered some morphine for any pain. Slowly the heart monitor beeped  and as Roland ebbed away, the beeps became slower and slower. But just before the final beep, as the group was singing the “praise God, praise God” segment of the song, with no brain activity for 2 days, Roland lifted his hand to join in praise of God. Moving his hand from where it lie, he raised his hand! With all the saints passed and present, he praised God. I can hear Roland say it once last time:”Amen”!

Now.  If you have never met Roland, you might not understand that.  Roland was more than just Andrea’s Grandfather.  He was my next door neighbor, my landlord, the man that shouted “Amen!” in church, and the man that stood at the door, and greeted every single person that walked threw those doors.

He was the man who told me to turn the music down, and the man who told me I needed to get the grass cut, and the man that told me, “Boy, you sure are ugly, but I’ll learn to love ya.”  Those words, resonate inside of me. He was also the man who handed me money every time I did something for him, even though I didn’t want to take it.  He was the man who would go out of his way to help but somehow, never seemed to boast about it, or even acknowledge that he had helped.  He was a man with a HUGE heart.  He was a great example of Christ. (as long as I’ve known him)

My heart hurts for the Andrea and her family.  Knowing Roland is in a perfect place, and left on such a great note helps, but the hurt is still real.  We all love Roland, and he will be missed.

To wish condolences, or to view Andrea’s account on this, you can checkout her site over at www.shalomexistence.com

In Loving Memory of Roland Underwood.
Rest in Peace.